For those of you that wanted to comment on our ex-guildies post, do so here, I won’t be turning off comments in fear of someone saying something improper.
The original posting can be read here http://kidichka.wordpress.com/2011/01/20/the-threat-is-all-mine/
Edit: The link is no longer of interest since it has been censored to the public, yet again.
And herein follows my response.
Vasi, I admit, I have been looking forward to your posting after the little threat you made about it to Ven. I’m surprised you managed to go from writing about your gripes with your raid leader and raid healer to full on lies. Brings your words and actions into a very clear perspective when it comes to the guild and your participation in it.
To your first 6 points:
1. You were the one who outright insulted your raid leader, in game as well as on your blog. Leave your husband out of it since he has no choice but to follow what you do.
2. You posted on a medium that is read publicly by your fellow guild mates and officers instead of going to the persons responsible for issues within raid groups.
3. Yes, you were demoted by me after you decided to censor, then remove the opinions of your guild mates(many of whom have been supporting you with their participation in the raids).
4. I told you that the raid leader did nothing wrong, and she hasn’t, lets not forget you were the one to attack her. If you want, I can always post the unedited e-mails you sent me regarding the issue.
5. You replied to said e-mails trying to worm your way back into an officer and raid leader position, going as far as begging me not to kick the person in question you had the issue with(whom I have no intention of kicking).
6. And finally yes, I removed you, your family sadly had to go with you, since through all of this drama which you have created, you have lost the trust of the guild thats carried you up until now.
Now, apparently you seem to want to set yourself up as the innocent little guy that got jumped by a vast conspiracy within the guild. Good Luck.
This guild has carried you through Wrath. This guild suffered through endgame content on a 25man level because of your ineptitude. People you mention went out of their way to accommodate you every step of the way, providing you with gear that could have been more beneficial used elsewhere, providing you with positions that would have been better filled by other people. Yet, you seem not to notice any of this. Never heard a thank you for any of this.
Maybe I should mention the power plays you tried in the past, whining about how if something is not done your way well, tough on us, you can go and take 3-4 people with you when you leave a raid group, not giving a second thought to anyone else. Of course, I didn’t see you raise this tidbit in your own post, but I’m sure it just slipped your mind.
Let’s clarify, you were not demoted for speaking up. If everyone was demoted for that reason, we would not have a single officer. One of our current officers, to this day, is a very out spoken individual, and has been since before any of the people you have issues with were even with the guild. Think about that. What’s the difference between you and them? Simple, they understand that issues within the game, stay within the game. They’re either resolved or not, in the privacy of the guild, not put out for public consumption.
You say you’re not sorry for anything you’ve said and done. It’s a shameful thing you say that. You’re not sorry for attacking people who have stood up for you, supported you, considered you a valued member within the guild and their raid team. Your call, but by saying this, you do nothing less than spit in their faces and belittle their contributions to you. The snowball started with you, continued with you and ended with you, you just fail to realize this.
I’m not going to speak for others over you lovely character evaluations, but let’s not forget that the people you named have been the ones who showed you the trust and support while you were with the guild. One by one you insult them. If they wish to respond to you, they will.
As for myself, thank you. Thank you for showing me how belittling you can be. How wrong I was when I brought up and supported your involvement in the officer discussions. How misguided I was when I gave you the benefit of the doubt. Yet you call me and I quote ”Condescending, insensitive, ingnorant, and a bully with a large ego of a GM”. Your language in your posts, your e-mails are exactly these words, but I fail to see where you apply them to yourself. I’m sure in your mind you are the downtrodden revolutionary and I’m the big meanie. Think of it as you want, but also note the fact that not a single officer has asked me publicly or privately to give up the GM position. Being the GM is much like being a raid leader, it’s a thankless job that nobody wants to do. You were promoted with the abject reason that you could alleviate the shortage of raid leaders,that was the sole reason you were promoted and yet, you never did the job. You just wanted to be included without doing any of the work, then you went as far as insulting your raid leader, while in the background trying to be included on a team that does not need you. I can guarantee you one thing, if you were in my position in Wrath and Retribution, you had the title, you wouldn’t have a guild left over what you did.
As for my life, you know nothing about it but your statement made me laugh at how low you can stoop on trying to attack me. This in itself is entertaining because you didn’t mention me until I asked you to discuss your issues with me and then had to demote and remove you. The guild was sad to see what had to be done and they regretted the fact that I had to involve your children in any of this, but you lost their trust and they understand why it sadly had to be done.
In closing all I can say is this, learn how to lie about what happened better.